Reply to Goodness Mom Can We? This is the answer to Islam

One day, Ibn 'Umar saw a man who was holding his mother as she circumambulate around the Kaaba. The person is then said to him, "O Ibn Umar, do you think if I repay my mother?"

Ibn 'Umar replied, "Not yet, although just one moans when mom had you. But you have been doing good. Allah will reward you a lot of little charity that you do. "(Kitab al-adh-Dzahabi Kabair work).



This story gives us a valuable lesson that every child will not be able to repay his parents, but he found his parents as a slave, then bought and set free. (Muslim). In another hadith, "Do good to parents is more important than prayer, alms, fasting, hajj, umrah, and strive in the way of Allah." (HR Thabrani).

Is there an obligation to do good to parents after they died? Prophet Muhammad, "Still, that is pray, pray for forgiveness for him, fulfill his promise, honor friends, relatives and connecting relationships that are not connected except him." (Abu Dawud, Ibn Hibban, and al-Hakim).

History records many great people who were born from a mother who is also great. We would not be great as it is now without a touch of it. So, no excessive if there is a saying, Al-Jannatu aqdami al-ummahat throne, "heaven is under mother's feet.

Therefore, when a man emigrated from Yemen to the Prophet Muhammad and wanted to wage jihad. Then, the Prophet asked, "Is in Yemen still your parents?"

"O Messenger of Allah is still" the man replied.

The Prophet SAW said, "Go back to your parents and ask her permission. If they give permission then you should strive and if they do not allow it do good to him, because it is something that you bring the best to meet with God after monotheism. "(Reported by Ahmad and Ibn Hibban).

Then another man came to Prophet Muhammad asked allegiance to move off. He said, "I come to you, so make my parents cry."

Then the Prophet said, "Go back to them and make them laugh, as you have made them cry." (Abu Dawud, Nasa'i, and al-Hakim).

Mom has a role that can not be replaced by anyone. It was he who scored the winning generation. It is no exaggeration to reveal a poet, Al-Umm madrasatun, in a'dadtahaa a'dadta thayyiba Sha'ban al-a'raaqi. Mother is like a school, if you prepare well, meaning you have to prepare a people with a good foundation.

In another hadith, the Prophet SAW put the mother as the person most important to be respected. He ordered his followers to always honor his mother, then care for her mother. After that, then the father. And Allaah knows best.

Excerpted from Wisdom Reuters March 29, 2012 edition under the title: Reply to Goodness Mom